Build Fences...

It is a common human practice to build a metaphorical "wall" around ourselves to prevent people from using and abusing us. However, walls do not just keep out the bad... they keep out the good too. So if you don't mind living a neutral life, probably boring, but safe.. then by all means let the constuction begin. But if you are fond of the good, as I am, I suggest building a low fence.

Building a fence allows you to protect your property. It says to your neighbors and passer-bys that “this is my property, my land… this is who I am and all that is me lies within this fence. You may gander over and in, and the gate mind you is not locked. It would be most polite if you wait for an invitation from me. Feel free to chat with me from the other side when you do pass. I am open to new people in my life. As you get to know me, and I you, I may invite you in for coffee. But please do wait.”

                I believe strongly that this is the best approach to take when new people come into your life.

... and now you ponder...