Sunday, January 19, 2014

"He/she tried to change me"

a recent confliction (I guess that is a word based on the lack of a red line underneath it)...

anyhow - I want to talk the r word here... the one that rhymes with smationtips.

Who decides, where is the line between motivating someone and trying to change someone

lets all be honest, and I have said it before - we are constantly changing, growing...

so why does everyone get all up in a tizzy when someone tries to "change someone"?

I know I am personalizing this based on my own experience - but we are encouraged to surround ourselves with people who support/motivate/inspire/encourage us. Support us to cope? Encourage us to grow? Inspire us to dream? Encourage us to face challenges? in growing - we change/adapt into ideally better versions of our current selves. When we are faced with challenges - we grow. When we dream - we envision a scenario different than the one we are in. that is change.

Change is not a bad thing We have control in making changes that will hopefully benefit ourselves. I for one hope I continue to change until the day I push up daisies. ''

a life without change?
bore city!
no thank you. Ill pass

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